There are many challenges that are unique to single parenthood, regardless of gender. However, there are many ways to overcome these challenges. Although being a single mother is demanding, it can be very rewarding by managing time and money limitations. Reaching out to friends and family for support and assistance whenever possible is the key. To help all single parents out there, here we have compiled a list of problems that they face with the solutions that work for them. Have a look!
Common problems in Parenting as a Single Parent
Some of the common problems faced by single parents are:
- The need to have help for household chores, something that will reduce play time and quality with your children.
- Children may have problems with authority figures who expect unconditional obedience.
- Single parents may feel the need to have company with other adults, but not find time for it because they must be in charge of their children all the time.
- It can be difficult for a parent to apply positive discipline at home when he spends a lot of time outside the home in order to get money.
- You may feel some envy of other parents who have more organized or more harmonious lifestyles with their partners.
- Having new relationships can be complicated, especially if you have a child with a tendency to be jealous.
Solution to Cope with all these Problems:
To cater to every problem mentioned above, here are some solutions:
- You as a single parent should try to balance your work and family life as to run your house effectively, you need money.
- Communicate all your problems with your kids so they become the supporting hand
- Try to be friend with your kids so they remain close to you even if you stay busy in earning for them
- Make use of the trendy family locator apps for iPhone such as FamilyTime that connects you with your kids even on the go and enable them to get in touch with you in a single tap from anywhere.
- Participate in your community. A group of people who support you can provide you with emotional support and a sense of belonging. And that is the perfect antidote against the isolation that comes with being a single mother or father.
- Accept the help you get. For some people, this is easy to say, but difficult to do.
- Make contingency plans. It's midnight, your baby has a fever and you do not have medicine. Or, you are also sick, throwing up and can not take care of your baby. Without the presence of another adult in your life, what can you do? It is important to be prepared for this type of situation. Find out if there is an emergency child care service in your area. Keep in mind that these services can be expensive, but they can get you out of a hurry.
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